My next entry is a question for all of you! My thoughts come because of a blog I just read regarding babysitting. In a-round-about way she talked about bad babysitter experiences and babysitters earning their money...First, we have been fortunate enough not to have to get babysitters too often because of the kindness of Jared's family and a few friend trading, but when we have on different occasions we have come home to a basement torn apart, popcorn everywhere, the dinner dishes on the table, nothing wiped off, etc...you get the point. Last time the babysitter promised the kids (Alex told me this the next day)a fruit roll-up if they were good and then never let them have it!(he said they were good!) Like my friend's entry said, I don't expect them to be a maid, but just the basics done, with the kids help; dishes at least in the sink, extra food wrapped and put in the fridge, the house kept at least what it was when she came. When I babysat, I always had the house cleaner then when they left, especially if I put the kids to bed and there was time! I would feel guilty/rude if I didn't! Anyways, there is my, "in my days"!! Ha!Ha!
>#1. what is the base rate you should pay a babysitter? (4 kids- ages 3-1/2-8 no babies/diapers)
#2. should that rate change if your house is destroyed?
#3 how much if she leaves your house as it was? eg. the kids eat dinner and she leaves everything out, so pretty much sit and watch t.v. with the kids (would that be the same rate as question #1?)
#4.How much do you give if they leave your house cleaner then when you left? eg. beyond the dishes if you leave during dinner time, maybe she sweeps, or vacuums, washes your pots and pans, something beyond the example of question #3
#5. is it the same rate if all your kids are in bed asleep and your house is perfectly clean? so, sit and watch t.v. or do homework, etc.With permission, here is her idea and she said it worked great! (click on for a larger view!)
Again, with permission, an exert from her blog entry! "...writing down my expectations beforehand.. I printed this and put it in a plastic slipcover, where I can write in the necessary information as it changes. I did this for the first time the other night with a brand-new babysitter, and we came home very pleased. We pay sitters generously, and for the first time in a long time, it was worth it. Hope this helps someone else out there who actually believes, like I do, that babysitters should earn their paycheck!"